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A 14-year-old, who succumbed to burn injuries at the Georgetown Public Hospital (GPH) on Monday, had reportedly set herself ablaze two Fridays ago after an argument with her boyfriend.

Amrita Singh

Amrita Singh

However, Amrita Singh’s mother does not believe she was suicidal and alleges that her boyfriend, with whom she lived, had set her ablaze. The 16-year-old boy is in hiding and has not been apprehended by police.

Singh, called “Bako”, left her parents’ home several months ago to live with her 16-year-old boyfriend. At the time of the incident, Singh and the boy were living in the bottom flat of his father’s Lusignan home.

When Stabroek News visited the Lusignan home on Wednesday afternoon a close relative said that the boy’s father and stepmother were taken into police custody on Monday and had not been released. Since, Singh’s death on Monday, the relative said, they had not seen her boyfriend.

“I don’t know why he don’t come and show he self to de police,” the relative said, “he ain’t got nothing to frighten… He can’t got he father and de woman in de lock up.”

Meanwhile, the boy’s sister, who said she was at home at the time of the incident, told Stabroek News that she had returned home on June 12 and found her brother standing by the gate with tears in his eyes. Singh, she said, was in their lower flat apartment and was soaked in kerosene.

“I lef’ home de morning,” she recalled, “and when I come back de afternoon I see he by de gate crying so me ask he ‘Wa wrong?’ and den I go inside dey place and she been throwing away things in de house and she skin de full ah kero… she seh she going to kill she self.”

The boy’s sister said she told Singh not to do anything to herself and went outside and told her brother to put water in the bathroom so the teen could bathe. She then left the couple and went to her upstairs apartment but was alerted some minutes later by a scream.

“I rush to de step and when I look down I see she in de drum and I see a set of fire on she,” she said. “I ain’t see is how de fire start but when I reach down stairs I hear she [Singh] seh ‘Ayo see meh bun mehself’. She de pregnant to.”

Neighbours, the boy’s sister explained, rendered assistance and Singh was placed in a taxi and rushed to GPH. She was admitted to the hospital’s Burn Care Unit where, after 11 days of fighting for her life, she succumbed to her injuries on Monday afternoon.

Efforts to speak to Singh’s immediate neighbours in Lusignan were met with refusals to comment. However, one resident admitted rendering assistance that Friday afternoon to ensure that Singh was taken immediately for medical attention.

“We don’t want to say anything,” the resident said. “We did give them a $1,000 that day so that they could get a taxi to take her [Singh] to the hospital.”

Asked whether Singh and her boyfriend argued a lot or if she was physically abused by him both relatives refused to answer.

Kamini Ramnarine, the girl’s mother, said that other residents related a different version to her. According to the woman, immediate neighbours reported hearing Singh scream repeatedly on June 12, but dismissed it thinking that her boyfriend was “beating she again”.

“De neighbours dem tell me that when dem rush outside dem see she next to a barrel in de yard and dey see de boy throwing water over she,” Ramnarine said. “Dem tell me that when dem go near she [Singh] she tell dem fuh pray fuh she.”
‘I lef’ she fuh mek she happy…’
Singh left her parents’ Coldingen, East Coast Demerara house on September 8 last year to live with her boyfriend. Ramnarine said she went home that day in September and discovered her daughter gone.

“I does do lil domestic work and she father does work in Suriname and Bartica and so,” a distressed Ramnarine explained. “I lef’ she home that day and when I reach home she de gone…I de confused and I didn’t know wa fuh do cause she is only one of meh eight children.”

The day after her daughter’s disappearance, Ramnarine said, she was contacted by the teen who told her she was at Garden of Eden, East Bank Demerara. The young man’s mother and stepfather live there.

“Me, meh bhowjie [older sister-in-law] and meh neighbour go to Garden of Eden and talk to de boy mother,” Ramnarine remembered. “She tell me how she going to tek care of meh daughter.” Regret on her face, Ramnarine admitted that she chose to leave her daughter with the boy and his mother. Ramnarine explained that she didn’t want to take her home because she was afraid Singh might try to do something “drastic”.

“I lef’ she fuh mek she happy because I know how dem young people stay now ah days,” the woman said. “I de frighten that if I bring she home she woulda try fuh kill she self or run away again.”

Singh’s boyfriend, her mother said, lived a few houses away from them last year and that is how the couple met. Ramnarine said she was never aware that her daughter was involved with the boy until she came home one day and discovered her missing.
‘Belna’ beating
After her daughter began living with the 16-year-old, Ramnarine said, she seldom heard from her. Whenever Singh called she would always tell her mother everything was fine but Ramnarine said she never believed her. Singh and her boyfriend, according to her, moved from house to house. They had been living at the Lusignan location for approximately two months when the incident occurred, Ramnarine said.

Just before Easter, she reported, Singh’s boyfriend had beaten her with a belna (rolling pin). Ramnarine said that her oldest daughter collected Singh and took her to an aunt’s house in Cove and John but the teen left with her boyfriend again shortly after.

“Meh daughter never seh that he does beat she but I know she de lying; she didn’t want tell me de truth,” Ramnarine stated.

Singh attended the Cove and John Primary School and after writing the Secondary School Entrance Examination she stayed on at the institution to attend first form. However, Ramnarine said that she was forced to transfer her daughter to the Enterprise school because she could not longer afford transportation costs.

Ramnarine, 37, said Singh was the second of her eight children. Her youngest child is three years old.

“Meh hurt right now and meh frighten for meh other children,” Ramnarine said.



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  1. Witch DR.(Your pain is...My Thrill) CANADA says:

    A lack of education is causing the downward spiral Guyana is in.Parents should be involved in their kids upbringing.

    • Leslyn UNITED STATES says:

      DAMNED STRAIGHT, I WOULD LOVE TO SEE THE MAN WHO I AM GOING TO ALLOW TO LIVE WITH MY 14 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER. OH FOR CRYING OUT LOUD, SHE SHOULD BE IN SCHOOL. HAD SHE BEEN ALIVE, SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN YET ANOTHER ILLETERATE GUYANESE AND WHY? BECAUSE HER PARENTS DID NOT DISCIPLINE HER. WHAT KIND OF FUTURE DO YOU SEE FOR HER? THIS IS SUCH A SHAME.

    • Wiggins BARBADOS says:

      The 2 children are from dysfunctional families . The parents of these children should feel the full weight of the law. . the immigration officers and the police in Barbados , do not set Guyanese on fire ; therefore , I would like to ask the President Jagdeo if Guyanese are treated better in Barbados than in Guyana . the 14 year old girl , now deceased , changed schools because her mother could not afford the bus fare . In Barbados , school children ride free on the government owned buses . The inept PPP government should come to Barbados and learn how to govern a country and provide for its people . If this girl was living in Barbados , she would have been alive , today .
      “Where there is no vision , the people perish” .

  2. How could it be? Slackness to fourth power.

  3. BORAPORK CANADA says:

    I thought a law was passed that made this underage activity illegal?

    • Leslyn UNITED STATES says:

      ILLEGAL YES. IN GUYANA, NO. OBVIOUSLY ANYTHING GOES IN THIS PLACE AND THEREIN LIES THE PROBLEM.

  4. NAVYSEAL BARBADOS says:

    It hurts to see this kind of thing happening to people. SO sad. Lord knows.

  5. malomucho58 UNITED STATES says:

    We have hit a new low. We now have teens brutalizing and killing there lovers, how sad a society.

    • michael tannassee UNITED STATES says:

      … u en juss “very bad” ,,, but damn ! very bad to de 58th power

      way to go ,, and u have my vote ,, cos it’s indeed a very sad society !…. yuh tink dat ur “very badness” may have contributed in any way ???????????????????????????????????????

      ah juss aksin ‘ !….

  6. michael tannassee UNITED STATES says:

    EDUCATION !!!!!!

    or sadly the lack of it ,, which seem to be over the top here !

  7. Tessa UNITED STATES says:

    What utter nonsense is this? What is a 14yr old and a 16yr old doing living and having a child together? And why would supposedly good people let a 16yr old child beat up on a 14 year old girl and not counsel him on it. This is stupid and tragic.

    Girls stay in school and get a good education and be INDEPENDENT!! This is schupidness!

  8. Babs Ingar UNITED STATES says:

    First off please accept my sympathy,Mother how sad indeed, one does not kick a horse when he’s down, but mom, what were you thinking leaving that child to play house? she is a baby 14! and having to experience such brutality,you should have incisted that she return home,at the time, you said you were afraid she would kill herself, you left her with the little boy, and the very thing you were trying to avoid, is what has happened. I hope that other young ones will learn from what this poor child had to endure, enjoy being young teens,there will be time enough for you to be adults, once again May you find pesce in knowing that God will give you strength tomcope with your tragidy.

  9. Paul Mc Adam CANADA says:

    This nonsense will stop when the law is changed to make it a crime against the state. This way prosecution will not be dependent on the victim testifying or the parent declining to move forward with the prosecution. This is not the dark ages,people must wake up.Once the evidence is there, the prosecution must move forward, and while we’re at it, deal with the parents or parent too. Maybe parents should be made to write exams before they have children! A public education campaign is needed first, then gov’t can pass the law and I don’t think the opposition parties will have a problem with this one, even if they do, gov’t can still pass it with their majority.

  10. tony UNITED STATES says:

    37 AND 8 KIDS HOW CAN ANYONE FEED 8 KIDS IN GUYANA IN THIS DAY AND AGE. THE FATHER NOT AT HOME MOTHER DOES LIL DOMESTIC WORK WHO WATCHES THE CHILDREN, WHO TEACHES THEM RIGHT FROM WRONG, IF SOME ONE WAS HOME A 14 YR OLD WOULD NOT BE LIVING WITH A BOY.

    • sick about it UNITED STATES says:

      tony this is so true but the mother has to make end meet so sad boy but what else could she possible do

    • sam UNITED STATES says:

      Thats exactly the problem. They making lots of children and dont have time to take care of them.
      No money , no proper home ,a father who is never there, seems hes only home to get the mom pregnant every year.
      You dont have to got to school to learn this,common sense will tell you to stop,
      very sad for the kids because they really dont have anyone to guide them.
      Stop making children .



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