Trinidad: Reshma’s message, before abusive man killed her

Reshma Kanchan
Reshma Kanchan

(Trinidad Express) On June 26 of this year, murdered mother of two Reshma Kanchan shared this message on her Facebook page. She was chopped to death on September 29.

Just to clear things up… A lot of times when a woman leaves a long term relationship the man’s first thoughts are, “she found someone else” or “how could she do this” “all these years together” and so much more, BUT what men don’t think about is all the times she went to sleep feeling like crap because of all the times that he disrespected her or how he kept saying he would change but never did.

Men don’t think about all the times she was there when no one else was. How she prayed to God to help him change. Men don’t think about how she always put everyone and everything before herself.

Men don’t think about how all her friends and family told her to walk away but she still stayed.

No, he’s thinking “how could she do this.” Women don’t just wake up one day and decide to leave. A man’s actions, his words, the way he makes her feel, builds up over time and eventually all his crap becomes weight that she just can’t carry anymore.

When she stops venting to you, when she stops getting on you, when she stops trying to get you to see things her way, just know it’s not because you won, she’s finally done putting up with everything, it’s because she’s preparing her escape from your toxic ways. So no she didn’t leave you to find someone else. She left so she can find HERSELF.

Appreciate your woman while you have her fellas… before its too late

Ladies…know and realize your worth, love yourself!!