“The worst thing a woman could do is marry to a man that don’t talk. Is like if you dating a man and you find he hardly talks then I would advise you not to walk away but to run far away.”
The words of a sister who has been married for many years and has adult children. We got into talking about marriage recently and she wanted to share some words of wisdom with those who are not yet married. This sister carries herself well and from the outside it appears as if she has the perfect life. (No life is perfect but hers appears close enough.)
“I may appear that way because I have learnt to deal with it. I don’t cry and pull my hair out anymore. I stopped that years ago. I decided that I will not allow myself to look stressed because it is only me who will look bad but it took a lot of effort,” she told me when I mentioned she looks well.
